Comments on: Girls Gone Wild http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 01:35:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Roxie http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-767 Roxie Tue, 02 Feb 2010 23:47:39 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-767 I hate when people boil down difficulties they'v experienced with others down to sex/gender. It's not b/c she was female that you had a hard time with her. I hate when people boil down difficulties they’v experienced with others down to sex/gender.
It’s not b/c she was female that you had a hard time with her.

]]> By: MMMichelle http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-756 MMMichelle Sat, 30 Jan 2010 19:29:08 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-756 wow, anyone fucks on my bed, without me gets kicked in the god damn face. And any reacting I do to the people in a house that's partly mine is justified, because my bed is full of semen and vaginal fluids. You might think she over reacted, I think it just says what you are willing to put up with. Being locked out of MY room? Better hope there is no drill around for me to take the door off the hinges. Maybe this is because I have never, nor will ever have a room mate that I'm not involved romantically with, and the thought of strangers with my stuff sends chills down my spine. wow, anyone fucks on my bed, without me gets kicked in the god damn face. And any reacting I do to the people in a house that’s partly mine is justified, because my bed is full of semen and vaginal fluids. You might think she over reacted, I think it just says what you are willing to put up with. Being locked out of MY room? Better hope there is no drill around for me to take the door off the hinges. Maybe this is because I have never, nor will ever have a room mate that I’m not involved romantically with, and the thought of strangers with my stuff sends chills down my spine.

]]> By: Marmur http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-746 Marmur Fri, 29 Jan 2010 01:32:01 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-746 Damn, you guys really go after each other. In this story what really would have set me off was being locked out of my OWN room. I think I would have tried to break in. Damn, you guys really go after each other.
In this story what really would have set me off was being locked out of my OWN room. I think I would have tried to break in.

]]> By: GarterSnake http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-727 GarterSnake Mon, 25 Jan 2010 12:25:21 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-727 Way to just ignore the majority of what I said, especially the stuff about the OP choosing to live with someone she knew liked to party. Oh, and the roommate helped pay the bills, too. Anyone who pays rent has some say on what goes on in the house. If you don't like that, then don't have a roommate. Really, I hope and pray you don't have a roommate. Way to just ignore the majority of what I said, especially the stuff about the OP choosing to live with someone she knew liked to party.
Oh, and the roommate helped pay the bills, too. Anyone who pays rent has some say on what goes on in the house. If you don’t like that, then don’t have a roommate. Really, I hope and pray you don’t have a roommate.

]]> By: ghgsw http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-726 ghgsw Mon, 25 Jan 2010 09:22:15 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-726 She wasn't kicking them out of the house as her roommate's parent, she was kicking them out of the house as a hardworking person who happened to live there and help pay the bills. She wants to party at 3 AM, go do it at a club. She wasn’t kicking them out of the house as her roommate’s parent, she was kicking them out of the house as a hardworking person who happened to live there and help pay the bills. She wants to party at 3 AM, go do it at a club.

]]> By: KelBel http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-723 KelBel Sun, 24 Jan 2010 03:59:01 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-723 I agree with Gartersnake and Mari. That was a pretty terrible thing to do, but the OP overreacted. She not only kicked everyone out, but it sounds like she kicked the roomie out eventually as well. The roommate obviously respected the OPs schedule and wishes most of the time by cleaning up, so going insane over a (admittedly large) misstep is not really fair. Sure, be pissed and kick everyone out while you are pissed, but end a relationship with your best friend? Just wash the damn sheets. I agree with Gartersnake and Mari. That was a pretty terrible thing to do, but the OP overreacted. She not only kicked everyone out, but it sounds like she kicked the roomie out eventually as well. The roommate obviously respected the OPs schedule and wishes most of the time by cleaning up, so going insane over a (admittedly large) misstep is not really fair. Sure, be pissed and kick everyone out while you are pissed, but end a relationship with your best friend? Just wash the damn sheets.

]]> By: GarterSnake http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-718 GarterSnake Sat, 23 Jan 2010 01:15:28 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-718 The OP said that Colleen was her best friend. She knew that Colleen liked to drink and have parties, and still, she chose to live with her. So yes, it IS too much to ask that the roommate suddenly change and stop having parties just because the OP works late. I addressed the fact that it's disgusting that people were in her bed. So did Mari. My point--and Mari's, I think--is that the rest of it, kicking everyone out of the house as if she were Colleen's parent, is overboard. It sounds like the lock on the OP's door was the kind that locks from the inside. The people using her room locked it, and that's why the OP couldn't get in. If living with "scummy drunkards and drug addicts" isn't your cup of tea, then don't live with them. But the OP chose to live with someone who liked to party. If, to you, it's reasonable to expect to come home to a quiet place after work every night, then you should probably live alone, or with a nun. The OP said that Colleen was her best friend. She knew that Colleen liked to drink and have parties, and still, she chose to live with her.
So yes, it IS too much to ask that the roommate suddenly change and stop having parties just because the OP works late. I addressed the fact that it’s disgusting that people were in her bed. So did Mari. My point–and Mari’s, I think–is that the rest of it, kicking everyone out of the house as if she were Colleen’s parent, is overboard.
It sounds like the lock on the OP’s door was the kind that locks from the inside. The people using her room locked it, and that’s why the OP couldn’t get in.
If living with “scummy drunkards and drug addicts” isn’t your cup of tea, then don’t live with them. But the OP chose to live with someone who liked to party. If, to you, it’s reasonable to expect to come home to a quiet place after work every night, then you should probably live alone, or with a nun.

]]> By: ghgsw http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-717 ghgsw Sat, 23 Jan 2010 00:22:10 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-717 RE: Mari Take your own advice and get over yourself. Same goes for "GarterSnake" When you come home from work at 3 AM it's not too much to ask to come home to a house where you can sleep in your own bed. People fucking in her bed aside, the lock obviously wasn't keeping creepy people out. I wouldn't want to sleep in a house full of drunken strangers. Just because some people are used to living with scummy drunkards and drug addicts doesn't mean that's an acceptable norm for the rest of us. RE: Mari
Take your own advice and get over yourself. Same goes for “GarterSnake”
When you come home from work at 3 AM it’s not too much to ask to come home to a house where you can sleep in your own bed. People fucking in her bed aside, the lock obviously wasn’t keeping creepy people out. I wouldn’t want to sleep in a house full of drunken strangers. Just because some people are used to living with scummy drunkards and drug addicts doesn’t mean that’s an acceptable norm for the rest of us.

]]> By: Frau Blucher http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-715 Frau Blucher Fri, 22 Jan 2010 20:15:09 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-715 male or female...the worst are party types who just want to drink their faces off every night with a cast of thousands. male or female…the worst are party types who just want to drink their faces off every night with a cast of thousands.

]]> By: Mari http://myveryworstroommate.com/2010/01/19/girls-gone-wild/comment-page-1/#comment-712 Mari Fri, 22 Jan 2010 06:14:43 +0000 http://myveryworstroommate.com/?p=721#comment-712 Ok, if you leave out the part with other people sleeping in the bed, I would say you were the bad roommate in this situation. You said yourself that she usually had parties when you weren't there and cleaned up after herself. So you get home, kick everyone out and then decide to go to your boyfriends house? I would be annoyed with you too. Just wash your sheets, get a lock for your door and get over it. Ok, if you leave out the part with other people sleeping in the bed, I would say you were the bad roommate in this situation.

You said yourself that she usually had parties when you weren’t there and cleaned up after herself. So you get home, kick everyone out and then decide to go to your boyfriends house? I would be annoyed with you too.

Just wash your sheets, get a lock for your door and get over it.

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