My Ex-BoyFriend’s Gross New Girlfriend
First big mistake. I moved in with my ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend. At first, things were ok. That was the first two weeks.
And then I started to notice all her dirty habits. The dishwasher would be empty, and instead of taking the time to dump the rest of her food in the garbage, rinse the plate, and stick it in the dishwasher, she’d toss the plate (food and all) in the sink. There were multiple times when it would sit in the sink for 3-7 days and grow with mould and smells, that smelled worse then walking by a sewer plant. When she would cook food, instead of putting water or anything in it she’d leave it on the stove to sit and harden. One time, we had to throw a pot and spoon out because it had sat there so long they wouldn’t come apart from each other, even after soaking it.
You’d think that was the worst of it. But no, not at all! Â It was her turn to buy the toilet paper, and she forgot, so I brought home a roll from work, but kept it in my room. So she went to the washroom to take a disgusting No. 2, came back and said, “I just showered the sh*t off my ass in the shower, because I forgot to buy toilet paper.” Oh and to top it off, she would brush her hair in the shower, and then dispose of it in the bottom of the shower/tub, which then ended up clogging up our water system and you had to wade in 2-3 inches of your own grimey water (and probably her feces too!)Â while trying to take a shower.
fuck that noise. that’s sounds absolutely horrible. the dishes is one thing. oh, yuck.
What a disgusting, nasty person. Ugh!
Moving in with your ex? Dumb. Moving in with your ex AND HIS GIRLFRIEND? No. I can’t feel sorry for you. Did you all three move in at the same time, or did you move in with them? If you moved in with them, I really have no sympathy. I feel bad that she had to live with her boyfriends ex. I wouldn’t be surprised if she did all of these things on purpose to mess with you.
Woahhhh what a dumb how that’s so siiicckkkkk
Sounds to me like you still might have had some feelings for your ex. You didn’t say a single bad thing about him, but yet his new girlfriend created all the issues.
Agreeing with Tina and Becca on this one.
While I agree with Becca, Tina while it is understandable that the gf would do that… don’t you think that’s an immature way to handle things? If that wasn’t her way of handling it, she’s still a pig.
IMO, the three of them were idiots for not realizing it was a living arrangement that just wouldn’t work.
I needed a second to get past the fact that you *moved in with your ex-boyfriend and his new lover* … and then, wow, she sounds foul. Yes, you probably were wallowing in her feces in the shower.
Why did you hide the TP? Is it that expensive? I understand the whole “she’s got to pull her part” crap, but you basically ended up showering in her feces because you didn’t just buck up and spare a square. And why did you put up with standing water anyway? It’s called “Drano” or “Thrift” or a billion other low-cost chemical drain cleaners that take care of hair, feces, paper, soap scum and anything else remotely organic that is sent down a shower drain. Even a combination of vinegar and baking soda can unclog a drain.
The three of you all have your part in this mess. You, for moving in with them. Your ex for taking up with someone that gross…but you never mention anything bad that HE does. And why all of you even agreed to this arrangement. But yes, she sounds disgusting.
Is it just me, or are these totally run of the mill habits?
Leaves dirty dishes – normal
Hair in the shower – normal (for girls)
Doesn’t always pitch in for her part – normal
Going into detail about living with another person is always gross, but everyone’s roommate has done these things. This is no where near a MVWRM
Who the hell HOARDS TOILET PAPER in their room? Especially if they took it from their work and didn’t even have to buy it.
This entry just has so many levels of stupid in it. No one, i mean, NO ONE, who isn’t completely desperate and delusional would move in with an ex and his gf.